hello. i am glad you are here.

My name is Tracy. I help people reconnect—with themselves, their bodies, and with the kind of love they may have missed growing up. With a degree in psychology and over 15 years working in high-stress, conflict-navigating situations as an investigator, I learned this: we don’t heal by pushing through. We heal when we pause, learn what has shaped us, and gently start writing our own story.

I’ve been studying the science of attachment and nervous system regulation full-time since 2022—and putting it into practice. Resources I provide are:

🌿 A free, biweekly self-love and attachment healing support group

🌿 1-to-1 support sessions

🌿 Workshops

🌿 Coming soon! A workbook for healing attachment wounds and growing big love for yourself

You are not broken. You don’t have baggage. You are perfectly formed to handle the environments you’ve been living in. But if you’ve decided you want something different, there is a way. Finding peace, finding connection, chasing your dreams, and feeling happier is about returning to you. And learning to love what you find.

group

workshops

Anxious Avoidant Dance

Understanding Your Needs, Understanding Your Choices

Are you trying to understand why you are drawn to certain partners and relationship dynamics? Or understand why these particular insecure attachment styles seem unable to stay away from each other?

In this workshop, we will:
🤍Examine: how each style is similar in what they are looking for in connection, and how they are different
🤍Understand: why we may repeatedly choose partners with insecure attachment styles and what this says about us
🤍Explore: ways to discover what truly matters and what we genuinely want in a relationship
🤍Find: peace in our decision-making by embracing the waltz, or getting off the dance floor

In this workshop you can expect:
To gain understanding of why this dynamic exists, join in group discussion with others, experience reflection, better understand attachment patterns, and make more informed relationship choices.

Friday, Apr 26th @ 6 - 8pm, EST

Beginner Inner Child Work

Healing Attachment Wounds and Restoring Connection

Dates TBA

Radical Self-Love

Design Your Own 

Radical Self Love Program

Dates TBA

attachment healing and self-love resources

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attachment healing and self-love resources 🤍

books

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audiobooks

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websites

Free to Attach

an excellent resource on avoidant attachment

The Attachment Project

an excellent resource on attachment styles

Positive Psychology

an excellent resource on the history and latest research on Attachment Theory

meditation and mindfullness

online clinicians for attachment healing

articles for cultivating self-love

Ask Polly

Support sessions - 1 to 1

https://calendly.com/tracy-freetoreturn

Meetup - self-love and attachment group

https://www.meetup.com/attachment-styles-support-group/

Sessions begin at 1pm, EST. Please RSVP. Admittance to group @ 1pm, EST and 2pm, EST

🌿Sunday, April 13, 2025

🌿Sunday, April 27, 2025

🌿Sunday, May 11, 2025

🌿Sunday, May 25, 2025

🌿Sunday, June 8, 2025

🌿Sunday, June 22, 2025

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Workshops - offered throughout the year

Details found here and on Meetup

In-Person Retreat Hosting

Contact me directly to schedule hosting an in-person workshop or event

tracy@freetoreturn.com

connect with Tracy

Coming soon!